Monday, 4 May 2009

Save Your Marriage & Stop Your Divorce

Dear Reader,

So you tried everything from marriage counseling to what your friends told you, and you may be a little hesitant in trying out other methods in saving your marriage? With the divorce rate at record highs, more than ever people are seeking marriage counseling, but it is expensive and you usually end up paying for the service even if it doesn't work. Most of all, it requires the attendance of your partner who will most likely refuse. Most couples who enter marriage counseling already have one foot out the door already. I am Katie Zaltman and I am the head author of the book. Personally, I've been a marriage counselor and relationship therapist for over thirty years. During this time, I have met with over ten thousand couples and assisted them in saving their marriage. As a result, I have decided to share what I have learned with you. As a member of a team of four marriage counselors and relationship gurus, we have in total saved tens and thousands of marriages with more than a 90% success rate. We have seen the divorce methods that have worked and that have not. We use our background and our years of experience to ensure that the methods we described to you in this book are valuable and what you will find will be quite surprising.

It has been our lifelong career to stop divorces & save marriages. Our team of four marriage counselors and relationship experts have each been in the industry for more than twenty years. We have saved more marriages than any other team of relationship counselors. Let us show you what works and what doesn't work

Imagine having your friends and family being impressed at how quickly both of you managed to reconcile your differences.

The majority of husbands and wives we've seen haven't had any luck using common "marriage saving techniques" in solving their marriage problems. We will start with a couple who was a client of our practice two years ago. The couple married in their freshmen year of college and had a good relationship until they were in their late twenties. Eventually, they became disinterested in each other. Here is an example of their common conversation:

Larry: Sorry I came home late, I had to work late today.
Sally: You always come home late. Cook your own dinner.
Larry: I am sorry about this honey. This won't happen again. I had to attend an important meeting.
Sally: I'm tired of this marriage and I feel that I would be better off without you.
Larry: Honey, I really didn't mean to do this. I will change for you and do what you want. I truly love you and I want our marriage to work.

Larry does the most common thing any man would do. He declares his love for his wife because he thought this was what she wanted to hear. But, in fact, this was not what she really needed. In times like this she does not want to argue with her husband or be reassured by his continual lies or promises. Unfortunately, his common strategy does not work.

What does work?

Here is an example of a couple who lived thru a long and successful marriage for over 50 years.


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